Anal Sex vs Stimulation
Enhancing Genital Pleasure
The term “anal sex” by definition implies methods and techniques that mimic intercourse or vaginal penetration. Methods consisting of the traditional burn-n-churn techniques seemingly in a rush to pleasure and pursuit of climax. The Teachings of AnalSutra use the term loosely and sparingly in favor of “anal stimulation“
The term “anal stimulation” more accurately depicts an approach to sensual pleasure that requires neither penetration nor a projectile to arouse your partner [or yourself]. A focus on stimulation helps us shift attention towards the sensual aspects in the cause and effects of stimulating Annie by way of pleasuring Ms. Kitty. And, visa versa since there is a window where stimulation becomes reciprocal – a state of arousal the teachings describe as ‘harmonic resonance‘.
Introduction
The most important aspect of anal sex is that the act(s) and pleasures thereof are not isolated to the poking and prodding of penetration. Anal stimulation (aka: sex) occurs at the point of touch when sensual pleasure is the result. Long before Mr. Wizard even gets a look at Annie, she’s been pleasured – and she liked it.
In most cases Annie discovers sexual pleasure from a stimulating washing in the shower. And partners often touch or lick her screen door while Ms. Kitty is enjoying a thorough tongue lashing. Perhaps by error and often on the premise of error as with Annie, the waters must always be tested.
The second most important thing to know about stimulating Annie is: “She’s Not a Vagina”. Anal stimulation should be approached as an enhancement to genital stimulation – not a replacement or alternative. That means getting through Annie’s gatekeeper requires the synchronized application of sensual stimuli to Ms. Kitty and Annie. Practitioners only need to provide assistance, patience and technique. We detail methods for stimulating Ms. Kitty to activate physical responses within Annie, ease her doorway open and ultimately draw the projectile into her web in the how-to sections of methods and technique.
Reaching full penetration is a journey of different physical and intellectual sensations. A sensual approach can take several hours to fully penetrate Annie and even days for the anal virgin or the introduction of larger than usual projectiles. The teachings of Anal Sutra recommend a slower approach to maximize pleasure so she can capture the full spectrum of physical and intellectual sensations.
Annie (like Ms. Kitty) is an onion that is best peeled through a series of steps and stages. Each step producing its own unique physical sensations, pleasures and interaction between partners. Best when peeled and enjoyed with partner(s). We cover these steps in great detail so practitioners can explore, define and refine their own pleasure experiences and sexual communication skills from fundamentals behind the cause and effects of stimuli.
Every time is the ‘first time’ for Annie ! Access by force is always a possibility and often the only technique partners use. But like Ms. Kitty, Annie responds best when finessed into opening her doorway and inviting you in.